Sex is supposed to be fun, not a race we are eager to see be over as quickly as possible. That said, some nights couples get stuck in a rut, and that rut is your vagina and the same old sad sex positions you’ve been using to get the job done forever. There are other occasions where you might want your dude to finish up a little bit faster, too. Let’s say he’s popped one of his friend’s secret erection pills, or he’s drunk enough to be stupidly horny but too drunk to actually make anything happen. There are also forms of erectile dysfunction that can make it difficult for a man to reach orgasm. If you find yourself in a position like this, it’s your positions that need work… Your sex positions, that is. RELATED: 9 Sex Mistakes Women Make (That Make Him Think You’re Boring In Bed) I’ve rounded up a few trusty sex positions to make him orgasm faster than ever before. In fact, he might climax so quickly that you’ll run the risk of being disappointed. But hey, you get what you ask for, friends.
The 5 Best Sex Positions to Make Him Orgasm
1. Doggy style
Giphy This sex position is king. In fact, in a prior relationship, we had to give this one a hard pass because it was just too hard for my dude to stay, well, hard for very long. Doggy style gives your man maximum thrust and all kinds of friction. It’s ideal for ensuring that he gets an orgasm that’s just as intense as it is speedy in its arrival.
2. Adjusted missionary position
Giphy It’s hard to believe that any sex position with the word “missionary” in the title could help him have an orgasm faster than usual, but this ain’t your grandmother’s missionary (also, I am sorry I mentioned your grandmother.) In adjusted missionary your legs go on his shoulders, tightening your hold on his penis and allowing him a maximum depth of thrust. That’s all a big technical way of saying, look out, he’s going to blow. RELATED: These 4 Sex Positions Will Help Him Last Way Longer In Bed
3. Musical chairs
Giphy This one is a true winner and although the night might sound childlike, this is entirely X-Rated. Mount your partner while he is seated in his favorite chair. Climb onto his lap and hook your legs over the chair’s arms. It gives you all the control and delight of being on top, with the added depth he needs to really come quickly.
4. The mantis
Giphy This is another form of adjusted missionary sex that really hits the spot, pun absolutely intended and relished because I am a total dork. During missionary sex, roll slightly to the side of your choice. Wrap your legs around your man letting him spread his own legs slightly allowing him to get deep inside of you without losing any of that tightness he so enjoys.
5. Oral sex
Blowjobs in any imaginable position done properly are a great way to make sure he has a fast, powerful orgasm, especially on days when you don’t feel up for having full-on penetrative sex. Some men have a difficult time having an orgasm, so check in with your man about how exactly his body responds to a blowjob before you go doling them out all willy-nilly. RELATED: 7 Sex Positions Men Actually Hate Rebecca Jane Stokes is a writer living in Brooklyn, New York with her cat, Batman. She writes about Internet culture and relationships and explains all the latest slang.